Teen Picky Eaters
Hello everyone! Welcome back to the Positively Healthy Mom Podcast. I’m Laura Ollinger, and today I’m excited to introduce Amy Thompson Martin, a Pediatric Occupational Therapist, Feeding Specialist, and the founder of Little Table of Grace Coaching. Amy is a wonderful friend and a true expert in helping parents navigate the unique challenges of picky eating in teenagers. With her compassionate approach, Amy provides invaluable strategies that make mealtimes more enjoyable and reduce the stress for both parents and teens.
Understanding Teen Picky Eaters
Amy and I both recognize that dealing with picky eating can be particularly challenging during the teen years. With busy schedules, peer influence, and evolving tastes, helping teens develop healthy eating habits isn’t always easy. In this episode, Amy shares her insights into the psychology behind picky eating, offering practical advice to encourage healthier eating while also fostering a positive relationship with food. She emphasizes that it’s not about forcing certain foods, but rather about creating a supportive and low-pressure environment where teens feel comfortable exploring new flavors.
Creating Positive Mealtime Experiences
One of Amy’s core strategies is to approach mealtimes with a calm and positive mindset. She suggests small changes to make family meals less stressful, like involving teens in planning or preparing meals, which can make them feel more engaged and open to trying new foods. Amy believes that the more relaxed the mealtime atmosphere, the easier it is for teens to enjoy eating without feeling pressured. Her goal is to help families establish routines that encourage nutritious choices while respecting each teen's individuality and preferences.
Incorporating Balance and Variety in Meals
Amy is a strong advocate for balance and variety, but she understands that these can be challenging to introduce with picky eaters. She recommends starting with familiar foods and slowly incorporating new options in ways that don’t overwhelm or discourage teens. For example, she shares ideas on making small, gradual adjustments to favorite dishes by adding nutritious ingredients subtly. Amy explains that this approach can help teens gain exposure to new foods, promoting a more diverse diet over time.
Encouraging Teens to Build a Healthy Relationship with Food
As teens grow, it's essential for them to develop a balanced relationship with food. Amy talks about the importance of helping teens see food as something to enjoy and nourish themselves with, rather than something they have to control. She encourages parents to model a positive attitude toward eating, as this sets a foundation for teens to make healthier choices on their own. Amy’s compassionate advice offers a pathway for families to approach picky eating without judgment or frustration, focusing on long-term health and well-being.
Fostering Independence and Self-Confidence
Amy understands that teens crave independence, and she suggests allowing them more control over their food choices as a way to build confidence and autonomy. By giving them a say in what and how they eat, parents can support their teen’s journey to becoming more self-assured in their eating habits. Amy emphasizes that involving teens in meal planning and grocery shopping can empower them to make choices that align with their health and personal tastes, creating a more harmonious family dynamic around food.
Tips for Parents Feeling Overwhelmed
For parents who feel stressed by their teen’s selective eating, Amy offers reassurance and practical tips to make mealtimes easier. She suggests focusing on progress, not perfection, and celebrating small victories, like trying a new food or showing interest in healthy meals. Amy encourages parents to stay patient and supportive, reminding them that change takes time and that every small step counts.
Prioritizing a Positive Food Environment
Amy and I discuss how a supportive environment can make all the difference when it comes to teen eating habits. She highlights the importance of a non-judgmental space where teens feel respected and valued. Her goal is to create a mealtime experience that nurtures both physical health and emotional well-being, ultimately helping teens develop a healthy relationship with food that lasts a lifetime.
If you enjoyed these practical insights, don’t miss the full podcast episode with Amy Thompson Martin. Tune in to the Positively Healthy Mom Podcast for more expert guidance on creating balanced, fulfilling mealtimes with your teens.
Connect with Amy Thompson Martin
You can find Amy on social media, where she shares more strategies on managing picky eating and creating positive food experiences. Be sure to listen to the full episode to hear Amy’s expert insights on supporting your teen's journey toward healthier eating.
Listen to the full episode for practical guidance on how to approach picky eating with compassion, patience, and a focus on long-term well-being.